Friday, November 25, 2016

Mary Clark, Vietnam Gold Star Mother, 1927 - 2016




One of the people I had the pleasure of “meeting” while writing the book, “Died on the Fourth of July,” was Mary Clark, a Gold Star Mother whose son, Marine PFC Michael Hopkins, was killed in action in Vietnam on July 4, 1966. For his heroism that day Michael was awarded the Navy Cross, a recognition second only to the Medal of Honor.

I just learned that Mary passed away earlier this month at the age of 89. She died on Veterans Day.

Mary was well known in Norfolk, Virginia, for decorating her son’s grave every year on the Fourth of July, and then taking cookies to patients in the local VA Hospital. This past July was the 50th anniversary of her son’s death. I knew Mary was in failing health, and I was concerned that she might not have a way of getting to the cemetery. I contacted David Hord, Commandant of the local Marine Corps League to ask his help. In true Semper Fi fashion he replied, “The Marines have landed. All is well.”

Mr. Hord and his comrades saw to it that Mary and her son were properly honored on the Fourth of July, and that she was able to go to the cemetery. The newspaper article here http://tinyurl.com/jbdv67g tells of their kindness to Mary that day. It was Mr. Hord who contacted me to let me know Mary had passed away. When asked why he showed such kindness to a stranger, Mr. Hord said, “You’re honor-bound. You need to do this.”

I never met Mary in person but talked to her on the phone many times. She would always call me on holidays to wish me and my wife well. Mary had a delightful British accent. She grew up in England, served in the Royal Air Force during WWII, and married an American soldier, Michael’s father.

I’m sure it was a joyful reunion at the pearly gates when Mary was reunited with her son. Here is a link to Mary's obituary http://tinyurl.com/gw84v39

Monday, July 4, 2016

Died in Vietnam on the Fourth of July 50 years ago -- Honor and Remember



As we celebrate this Independence Day, I remember the sacrifice of 18 Americans who died in the service of our country 50 years ago today, July 4, 1966.



Nine of them were killed when in one engagement when a Marine unit was ambushed. They were:



  • Esteban M. Alvarez, 19, Tucson, Arizona
  • Larasett E. Avington Jr., 19, Chicago, Illinois
  • Johnie Lee Blount Jr., 21, Groton, Connecticut
  • Stephen C. Forrest, 18, Westminster, California
  • Michael Edward Hopkins, 21, Norfolk, Virginia (Navy Cross)
  • Glenn E. Spratley, 21, Houston, Texas
  • David W. Terrell, 22, Shreveport, Louisiana
  • Homero E. Tijerina, 20, Edinburg, Texas
  • Raymond Widmann, 18, Lindenhurst, New York
  • (A tenth man, Maxwell S. Frantz, 23, East Aurora, New York, was wounded in the ambush and died 18 days later.)


The others who died that Fourth of July were:


  • Guillermo Trujil Bonillas, 34, Tucson, Arizona
  • Norris James Denton, 33, Dallas, Texas
  • James Otto Gregory Jr., 20, Catawba, North Carolina
  • Raymond Carson Griffiths, 19, San Francisco, California (featured in the book Dear America: Letters Home From Vietnam)
  • Charles L. Moore, 26, New York, New York
  • Robert Daniel Richardson, 23, Poplar Bluff, Missouri
  • Elmer Wayne Scarborough, Romulus, Michigan
  • Daniel Wayne Stutler, 18, Fairmont, West Virginia
  • Theodore Williams Jr., 19, Robbins, Illinois

Take a moment to honor and remember them.

Monday, May 30, 2016

Remembering 12 men who died in Vietnam 50 years ago this Memorial Day

Memorial Day is a poignant time for all families who lost a loved one in the service of our country, but today is particularly significant for 12 American families. Fifty years ago today, 12 American soldiers and Marines were killed in action in Vietnam. They are:



DANIEL SPENSER BRITTAIN; Marine Corps, Second Lieutenant, 23; Frederick, Maryland; Married


ROSS ANDREW BROWN; Army; Specialist Fifth Class; 26; Dallas, Texas; Married
 
FRANCOIS JOSEPHI BUILAERT; Army; Sergeant; 31; Wolleston, Massachusetts; Married


FREDERICK CURT BULLINGTON; Army; Specialist Fourth Class; 20; Spencer, Virginia; Single


DELNO BILLY COLLINGSWORTH; Army; Specialist Fourth Class; 21; Mitchell, Indiana; Single
 
 THOMAS EDWARD COLLINS; Army; Staff Sergeant; 32; New York, New York; Single


 KEVIN MICHAEL FLAHERTY; Army; Second Lieutenant; 24; Syracuse, New York; Single
 
GARY ANDERSON HADNOTT; Marine Corps; Private First Class; 19; Houston, Texas; Single


DARROL OREN NELSON; Army; Specialist Fifth Class; 32; Calhoun, Alabama; Married


CHARLES EDWARD NICASTRO; Marine Corps; Corporal; 22; Memphis, Tennessee; Married

JOHN ROBERT RIDDLE; Army; Sergeant; 23; Dryden, Virginia; Single


CARL DANIEL VIOLA; Marine Corps; Lance Corporal; 18; West Monroe, Louisiana; Single